Im pretty much feeling old - my baby is 5 going on 6 and I began to think about raising this little girl . Every move I make - will be forming her and molding her into the woman she will become . I am her first role model . That led me to think about what it is to be a woman , how we as women can live our lives with balance , peace , traquility , and happiness.

I have seen so many women hurting at the hands of others and breeding contempt and bitterness as a result. Raising a generation of angry young women - because we have transferred our hurts instead of teaching them how to heal.

I asked someone this question the other day : How can I help someone , if I am still hurting and not healing ??? How can I be a blessing to someone ,  if I am still angry and bitter ??? I have seen women spend YEARS angry at one another , angry at some man for what he did or didnt do , angry at themselves for poor choices . Instead of letting go , we hold on bound by BITTERNESS!!!

A woman angry at a man for leaving , or for hurting her may spend years angry and upset at what occured between she and that man - BUT that man - moved on the day he moved out and his life is reflective of that. I've seen it time and time again , the woman is still devavstated years after the break up and the man is married with kids and a life and that first woman is spending her time trying to make him keep paying for mistakes he made with her , or the fact that he got tired and left.