Reality Round-Up : Love and Hip-Hop: Atlanta

I am already HOOKED !!! The cast of characters are such a mess that I cannot help watching the inevitable trainwreck .
Enter Stevie J and his fiance Mimi - first of all he is such a Hot mess and a liar and sneaky to boot ..... How you gonna move her out to where-the-fuck-we-at georgia while you stay in the city ...... REALLY ????? And she doesnt seem to know why she should leave his trifling behind ....well heres a reason JOSELINE ....the rapper-singer-stripper all around grimey Ho Sleeping with her man .....now I may not be a genius but I know for a fact that if I'm cheating with the broke down fake ass Rhianna I might not want to be doing it on the TV .... IJS. And then to jump when she says jump... WHAT ???????? STEVIE J IS A PUSSY and JOSELINE IS A SKANK ..... YES I SAID IT !!!
My Poor Mimi the enabler . She stays for the money because she doesnt have shit else going on , lets keep it 100!!! She wont leave because she has nowhere else to go !!! What does she do ???? I'll wait............still waiting................and.........nothing . She's just another Jennifer Williams got the ho stepping to her like the ho is # 1 ...really!?!?!? WOW ......and then theres pitiful ass bitchass negro Stevie J. , cant get the Ho in check .... smh ....say it with me People TRAINWRECK!!!!!!
Now Not for nothing you have the comic relief of Lil Scrappy (you remember him he USED to have a career) , Erica (the brokenhearted baby mother) and Mama Dee (the used to be pimp/dope dealer turned overbearing mother) aka the wannabe Jim ,Chrissy and Nancy . An overbearing mother who would sleep with her son if she could because no one is good enough .....lets just hope that she doesnt start a rap career .
There are some others but they haven't jumped out at me yet .......lets see what next week has to offer . My new guilty pleasure........

Im pretty much feeling old - my baby is 5 going on 6 and I began to think about raising this little girl . Every move I make - will be forming her and molding her into the woman she will become . I am her first role model . That led me to think about what it is to be a woman , how we as women can live our lives with balance , peace , traquility , and happiness.

I have seen so many women hurting at the hands of others and breeding contempt and bitterness as a result. Raising a generation of angry young women - because we have transferred our hurts instead of teaching them how to heal.

I asked someone this question the other day : How can I help someone , if I am still hurting and not healing ??? How can I be a blessing to someone ,  if I am still angry and bitter ??? I have seen women spend YEARS angry at one another , angry at some man for what he did or didnt do , angry at themselves for poor choices . Instead of letting go , we hold on bound by BITTERNESS!!!

A woman angry at a man for leaving , or for hurting her may spend years angry and upset at what occured between she and that man - BUT that man - moved on the day he moved out and his life is reflective of that. I've seen it time and time again , the woman is still devavstated years after the break up and the man is married with kids and a life and that first woman is spending her time trying to make him keep paying for mistakes he made with her , or the fact that he got tired and left.

View from the top of the Laundry Pile

it feels so GOOD to be back !!!!! Life took over for a minute ....... it almost won but I got myself back !! So many changes , and new observations I don't even know where to begin ! I will be posting my reality show round up soon which gives all my thoughts views and opinions of the shenanigans I see on my tv. Take all I say with Love and a Laugh this blog is meant to make you , smiole , think and take stock of this path your walking called life. Dont take anything you read on here too seriously this Blog is solely my opinion , if you dont agree ,form your own opinion !!!!

"STAR" Power..... Give me a Break !!!

I'm Baaaaaaccckkkk.........
Took a few days off to collect my thoughts and ponder some things .......
Have you ever wondered about what constitutes the public declaring someone a "star" ????
Why we deem certain individuals worthy of our attention and we neglect others ???
Why we (Yes "WE" ...I am guilty too!!!) have an insatiable obsession with celebrity and who fits the profile ????
Is it because our own lives are so hum drum that we only find excitement in the drama , glitz and glamour of others ????

Beyonce gets pregnant and that gets news coverage like Osama Bin Ladens death- REALLY !?!?!?! Maybe this just irritates me because I know women who are pregnant , have been pregnant ,and will get pregnant and there is no parade for the average woman having a baby - yet this chick gets weeks of news coverage like she cured the common cold !!!! NEWSFLASH - She got knocked up just like every other woman who has been , is or will get pregnant !!!!! There is no news here people - The gender question is simple - 2 choices BOY or GIRL - like EVERYONE ELSE who is having a baby !!! I said it before and I will say it again there will only be a news story if she gives birth to multiples , a goat or a cow - Hell , then I'm Watching the news!!!!

I love a good celebrity gossip filled story like evryone else but please give me something good not average dressed up in a Cavalli mini dress with a fake bump ( Yeah I said it)!!!!

Lindsey Lohan is a thieving , alcoholic ,druggie yet she was allowed to keep roaming around hollywood , go to "work" (- you know partying and such) , globe trot across the world and she is given chance after chance after chance - if she was an average girl there would not have been a third chance her behind would be under the jail - how many times does the average person need to break the law before they go to jail ?????

Paris Hilton - this broad got 5 days in jail and couldnt get through that - after a day and a half she has the shakes and they release her to her mansion because she needs her "medicine" aka vodka and whatever pill/powdery substance she could find - Who do you know gets to go home from jail because they get sick - I thought jail had an infirmary ????

Do these "celebrities" get special treatment because of their "Star-Power" , what makes them more interesting ? Maybe we hold them to a different standard than the rest of us because of their celebrity , or do we notice it more because of the microscope we hold up to their lives ????

Just a Thought to ponder ............
While your pondering that think of this .... "What makes their lives better than yours ?If you think its the money try again .....Biggie said it best "more money , more problems".